What should i do, my dads gone nuts
My dad has always been there for me although he does not live with me. l
recently met his new girlfriend when l went to see him a couple of months
ago. They are both 48 and im 19. My dad went nuts one night
and started accussing me of sleeping with his girlfriend. now thats sick.
his apologised but l have ignored him. He keeps texing me but l dont know
if l can forgive him. please, does anyone have advise?
Your Dad has always been there for you. He made one mistake
and you're ready to write him off? If you're there for him and give him
an opportunity to explain what happened, it may bring you that much
closer. Try to learn from him, accept that he is human and give him an
opportunity to make amends. By forgiving you not only help him, you help
yourself. Why carry that negative feeling around with you?
Maybe your father is dealing with some other issues and you
just happened to be at the wrong place at the wrong time. Clearly if you
are innocent than you have nothing to prove, so I would let it blow over.
If he is accusing you, than you probably is accusing her of sleeping
around as well, therefore the realtionship probably wont last that long.
And your relationship with your father is forever.
well that is crazy but i think u should 4give cuz hes just
being over protective of her u kno? n he was always there so now its ur
turn...think about it
This is ur dad is problem more than yours. He made a really
stupid mistake & now he regrets it. We all make mistakes but this one
shows that ur dad is filled with insecurity, either with her or you.
I would stay away for a while. Let ur dad know you need time to get over
this. When you do visit him, make sure you're never alone with his new gf.
Let ur dad know you want to be respectful but you're afraid he will
misinterpret it. Suggest to you dad that he discuss HIS insecurities with a counselor. Keep in mind that his new gf could be trouble & making things up. Good luck & don't let something like this get in the way of the loving relationship you've had with ur dad for ur entire life.
Avoid that jack ass like the plauge
Sounds like your Dad has some trust issues with his new
girlfriend. I would stay away from them both.
That is just weird! Why would he even think something like
that? Maybe his GF said something to make him think that she thought you
were cute? In any case, don't let a stupid comment ruin a relationship
with your dad. Just make sure that you are never alone with his GF until
he gets over his insecurities or until they break up.
avoid them
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